When it comes to sensuality, we tend to think of women, rather than men. However, all those little touches, nibbles, caresses and kisses ladies love, also have the power to drive men wild. So, why limit yourself to the obvious, when you know how much he enjoys being touched by the woman he adores?
Ready to explore the masculine landscape of erogenous zones? Here are 10 places guys love to be touched and tips on how to do it.
1. Run your fingers through his hair
Isn’t it amazingly seductive and strangely intimate, when a guy plays with your hair? Now, imagine being him, watching the woman he likes staring up at him, as she seductively runs her fingers through his hair? Even if he doesn’t have any, the scalp is super sensitive and the gesture is endearing, all the same.
Why? Because every man’s hair is different and unique to him. It says something about him, complements his style and expresses his individuality. When you show him that you adore his hair, he feels it in a special way, because you’re appreciating a very unique part of him. Add to that the intense physical stimulation of a head massage and you’re well on your way to fireworks.
2. Nibble on his neck
It’s no secret that the human neck is chock full of nerve endings, but this particular area of a man’s body is often sadly neglected. He loves it just as much as you do, so unleash your inner (but gentle) vampire and look at his neck with new eyes.
Come up behind him and kiss him just below his ear. Nibble lightly on the back of his neck. Run your tongue slowly up the front and softly stroke around his hairline with your fingertips. Whether you do it while you’re both in the kitchen making dinner, or after you’ve gone to bed, this is something he simply won’t be able to get enough of.
3. Tantalise his tongue
There’s nothing more sensual than playing with each other’s tongues, especially when you initiate doing so. It’s intimate, teasing and guaranteed to turn him on. Start by lying down on the bed and lightly licking his lower lip.
Ask him to poke his tongue out and get ready to be creative. Circle your tongue around his, gently suck it and pull back slightly. He’ll be begging for more and when you spice up your kissing life by tantalising his tongue, so will you.
4. Whisper in his ear
Whispering sweet nothing’s in your man’s ear might sound like something straight out of a romance novel, but the ears really are incredible erogenous zones. As well as verbal stimuli, there are sexy little areas that beg to be touched.
Flick your tongue behind his earlobe, in the crevice between the neck. Nibble, suck and tug gently on his earlobe with your lips. Tell him he smells good or how much you love kissing him. Find out which ear is more sensitive and focus on that.
A word of warning though, sticking your tongue into, or directly kissing, his ear canal might have the opposite effect.
5. Tease his fingertips and his feet
Massaging and playing with each other’s hands and feet can quickly turn into heated sex, even if you’re initially doing it for relaxation or affection while you’re on the couch watching Netflix. Fingertips, especially, are extremely sensitive, not to mention perfect tools for teasing.
When you play with his hands, stare into his eyes and slowly bring his fingers to your mouth – it’s obvious which appendage he’ll be reminded of. Start to lick and suck his fingers and you’ll soon take the anticipation to a point of no return.
6. Notice his nipples
Yep, men have nipples too and many of them love your touch! To find out if he does, start with slow, gentle touches and gauge his response or straight out ask him if he likes it. Though his nipples might not be quite as sensitive as yours, it’s likely they’ll be up for a good time.
Try different types of touching with your fingers and tongue. Circle around his nipple, flick your tongue back and forth or try a gentle bite. If you really want to up the ante, rub ice over them and blow on the wet surface. Basically, if it works for you, chances are it’ll work for him.
7. Seduce his sacrum
When a guy is making love to you in a position where you’re facing him, think about the areas of his body you love to grab in that moment of passion. His sacrum, or lower back, and butt come to mind.
When you do this randomly during the day, or during foreplay, he’ll experience some of the same sensations, as his mind fills with images of sex with you. This kind of touch creates that delicious anticipation, as he craves what happens next.
8. Touch his inner thighs
Sometimes, withholding touch can be just as sexy as touching, as you no doubt know. His inner thighs are not only close to his favourite sexual region, they’re also a sensitive erogenous zone.
Slowly rub your nails along them when you’re watching TV, or lick, nibble and gently bite on them when you’re in bed, during foreplay. The closer you get, the more he’ll want you to go for gold (so to speak).
9. Perineum play
No doubt you’ve heard of the perineum before, but have you attempted to go there? Many women haven’t, but, when you do, he’ll be in for a pleasant surprise. This area, between his anus and testicles, is extremely sensitive and a top erogenous zone, once you know how he likes the area stimulated.
You can try a number of ways, including gently pressing it with your fingers or softly rubbing your fingertips over the area. Some men love a rolling motion of the flat parts of your knuckles against him. Go in slow and take notice of his responses – he might not have been lucky enough to experience the sensations before.
10. Find the F Spot
Finally, there’s one more spot every woman should be aware of. His F Spot, or frenulum, is the loose section of skin on the underside of his penis, where the head meets the shaft. It looks like a little ‘v’ and it’s at the tip of that ‘v’ that pleasure reigns supreme.
It’s very sensitive, so treat it as you’d like him to treat your clitoris – with a light touch – until you know how he likes to be stimulated. Often, this area is unchartered territory, like many male erogenous zones.
When you combine all of the above, you’ll delve deeper sexually and your connection will grow as much as…well…you can take it from here.